Outside The Box

I am the girl who lives outside the box. I have never been in the box, and never intend to be.
People have attempted to stuff me into them, but I do not fit.

So I read in the November Cosmo, that many people, women in particular, born after 1980 are having issues feeling their lives are adequate. This is blamed on teachers giving better grades than should have been given, and our generation being told the were good at things even when they weren't just so our feelings wouldn't be hurt.
They also place a lot of blame on social media, and not just Facebook, but also Twitter, and Blogs.

I have to admit, I see it happen to people I know. I want to shake those people.

Everyone posts about when things are perfect and wonderful, not many of us have the balls to tell our "friends" when things go shitty, and life just sucks.

Guess what? Nobody has a picture perfect, hallmark card life. It is a fact!

I like everyone to know when I am happy, sure, but only because they also see when I fuck up, fall down, or am just plain old pissy.

I know I don't have the life everyone dreams of, but I also know that nobody else does either. Why can't we all just be honest, and stop faking it?

Also, Cosmo coincidentally is declaring November 4 No Faking It day, urging women to stop faking orgasms. I am not even going to go in to that subject, I have better things to talk about with the world (shout out to my Russians). How about we instead declare a No Bullshit Day, where nobody is allowed to lie about their lives, or be posers.

Calling my fellow freaks, I declare EVERYDAY, be who you really are day!

How can you ever expect the Love and Respect of others, when you can't even show them who you REALLY are!?

I wonder who will step up to the challenge???

Peace and Love,
B