The Fortress

Okay.....

When may I ask is it okay to change because of another person. Please pay attention to my wording here, I am not saying for another person, I am saying because of another person.   Please notice the difference. 

Say you choose to put up walls, so as to not let another person in. I mean nobody. You spend all this time over years, slowly building up this solid foundation, then these seemingly impenetrable walls.  You only built these walls for your own protection, like a fortress, you don't want to get hurt, so you build and build and build. 

Then, you meet this person, and, somehow, they have a chisel. Not a sledgehammer, not a bulldozer, but a chisel. Because it is only a chisel, you don't notice, when they start chiseling away at the walls.... until, they get to the foundation, and then crisis strikes! You think to yourself, how did I let this person get so close to breaking down my walls? All that is left is that sturdy foundation. 

Now, the big question is... Do you start to rebuild the walls, while the foundation is still standing? Or, do you allow them to continue with the chisel, and break it all down?

So, the big question here folks is.... When you are chiseled to only a foundation, do you A. Rebuild, stronger, more fortified. or B. Just let the whole dam thing come crumbling down, and see what happens?

Think on it. 

Peace and Love

B

Outside The Box

I am the girl who lives outside the box. I have never been in the box, and never intend to be.
People have attempted to stuff me into them, but I do not fit.

So I read in the November Cosmo, that many people, women in particular, born after 1980 are having issues feeling their lives are adequate. This is blamed on teachers giving better grades than should have been given, and our generation being told the were good at things even when they weren't just so our feelings wouldn't be hurt.
They also place a lot of blame on social media, and not just Facebook, but also Twitter, and Blogs.

I have to admit, I see it happen to people I know. I want to shake those people.

Everyone posts about when things are perfect and wonderful, not many of us have the balls to tell our "friends" when things go shitty, and life just sucks.

Guess what? Nobody has a picture perfect, hallmark card life. It is a fact!

I like everyone to know when I am happy, sure, but only because they also see when I fuck up, fall down, or am just plain old pissy.

I know I don't have the life everyone dreams of, but I also know that nobody else does either. Why can't we all just be honest, and stop faking it?

Also, Cosmo coincidentally is declaring November 4 No Faking It day, urging women to stop faking orgasms. I am not even going to go in to that subject, I have better things to talk about with the world (shout out to my Russians). How about we instead declare a No Bullshit Day, where nobody is allowed to lie about their lives, or be posers.

Calling my fellow freaks, I declare EVERYDAY, be who you really are day!

How can you ever expect the Love and Respect of others, when you can't even show them who you REALLY are!?

I wonder who will step up to the challenge???

Peace and Love,
B