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The obstacles of being a mommy ~ A list

The following is a list of the things that you get used to, but never thought you would have to, while being a Mommy. These are the things the parenting books don't tell you. Enjoy!

1. Going to the bathroom - Seems like an easy enough task that everyone does right? Not for a mommy. It doesn't matter if the bathroom has been empty ALL day, the second I close and lock the door, and sit down on the damn toilet, One of my lovely children starts banging on the door crying "Mommy I have to go right now or I'm gonna have an accident". Silly me, in the past, tried to call their bluff, and continued going potty myself, telling them to hold it. Guess what? I came out to have to bath and re dress a child. I swear they will themselves to pee the second I sit down. It also doesn't matter what time day or night, EVERY TIME!

2. Going to bed - Now from previous entries you all know by now that I am an insomniac. There is the rare occasion however when I do have the ability to sleep like a normal person, sadly on those occasions, at least one of my children are up for some reason or another. Mommy isn't allowed to EVER sleep~

3. Having a conversation - GOOD GOD MOMMY IS TALKING TO ANOTHER GROWN UP! MUST CONSTANTLY INTERRUPT SO SHE CANNOT KEEP HER TRAIN OF THOUGHT!!!! SCARE THE PERSON AWAY BY MAKING THEM THINK MOMMY IS CRAZY AND DUMB!!!!

4. Eating hot food - I have a memory of eating hot food, but I am getting to the point of thinking it is only a myth. Even if we eat out I do not get hot food. The Koala  has to go potty, then upon returning to the table, so does Bean, return again, and Tigger is refusing to eat because there is lettuce on his sandwich, so in order for him to eat Mommy has to peel the little shreds of lettuce off, then the Koala spills her drink and I have to get her more, then Bean is still hungry and needs to share Mommy's food, that by this time is luke warm at best.

5. A Hot Bath - I have managed this on a few occasion, but only after 2 am and before 5 am. Good luck if you have light sleepers, the running water may either A. Wake them, or B. make them pee themselves.

6. Get clean clothes - I do the laundry, so you would think I would ALWAYS have clean clothes. Wrong! My clothes are washed last, always. I probably smell funny at this point in parenthood lol.

~~~~I have more, if you like this list, I will add to it.~~~~

**** I wouldn't trade motherhood for any of these "given" luxury's, just so you know, I now just have a bladder of steal, never eat, and smell badly, with no friends haha****

Just Let It Pour

This posting may not interest anyone. I don't care. I am utilizing this blog to pour out the mess of thoughts in my brain. This just happens to be what has been on my mind as of late. 

Lately I have been putting a lot of thought into relationships. Now please, do not take this to me romantic or physical relationships. I am speaking of all kinds of relationships. Everyone has many, whether they acknowledge them or not is up to them. 

My feeling is that ALL relationships, regardless of how long they last, shape, change, and define you. 

Stop and think about the relationships you have, or have had. Everyone of those relationships has impacted who you are as a person. 

There are people who only lasted in my life for what now seems like a nano second, but I know they affected me. There are also people, who are still  in my life in some way or another, who at one time felt like my world. 

Friendships that you never saw ending, but in time people change, and sometimes, just grow apart. 

Life takes us in different directions Everyone of you reading this has lost a friend over time because you or they, or both changed. I have many of those. I cherish the memories, and appreciate that they changed me. 

Even our families change us. For example, when I was  growing up, I was teased by my parents and siblings for being the clumsy / ditsy one. Although I have been told differently many times in my adult life, I continue to look at myself as clumsy and not all that bright. My younger sister was always the smart one, and I am sure, that is why she is to this very day, an overachiever. The smallest things impact our lives. 

Even our past and or present significant others impact us. Unfortunately, I have had nothing but shitty relationships in the past, and I am in a small way grateful for it, because I went from being a naive girl afraid of my own shadow, to a strong woman who doesn't take shit from anyone. Another impact they had, is that I find it harder to open up about my feelings, and am far less trusting. I feel jaded by these people in my past, and hope to find a balance. 

I know that no matter how shitty any relationship ends, there was a lesson in it, and good memories along the way. Nothing is shitty 100% of the time. There is a silver lining in every situation. Maybe sometimes you have to get through the marsh to find the ocean. 

I hope everyone trudges through the marsh, and doesn't give up, because, to be honest, nothing can give you more peace and tranquility, than that first glimpse of the ocean.

A Tough Cookie Filled with Marshmallow.....

So my younger sister informed me today that she described me as a tough cookie with marshmallow insides.  I guess that is pretty appropriate.
I know I put on a harsh outer wall, and try my damndest to not let anyone in. I don't do this because I really don't want to let people in. I do it because I have been hurt, a lot. I guess you could say it is a defense mechanism.
When I was younger, I was pure sugar inside and out. I was also very naive. I let people walk all over me, and trust me, they did!
I do not want to come across to anyone as a bitch, because, I really am not.
A little twisted? You could say that. It is all really a matter of opinion. Some of the things that spark my interest are, I admit a little dark, but, that is who I have always been.
I have too big a heart to ever intentionally hurt anyone.

I have worked for quite sometime now to be an ice queen, as I have said before. I think I am failing at it. That is okay with me.

I am in a happy place right now, and am very happy with what is going on in my life. Things are starting to fall into place in many areas, and it's about damn time.

I have decided to let go of the past 100%. I am not going to let the people that hurt me continue. They are history, just a bad memory.